Connection & Collaboration Summary

Sherry Turkle: Connected but Alone

"Ted Talks" have inspired the world of technology. Check out YouTube for more educationally stimulating lectures. They are short, to the point videos with a new-to-me approach about "hot topics" in our society.

The Human Relations Course I've just completed has taught in depth about how we can communicate with each other in our changing world. One thing we can count on is change. Change is constant. As a teacher, changes occur with new staff, new students, new programs, new curriculum. We are constantly learning new things. I am now realizing the complexity of change. It is painful whether it is for the better or not. You can anticipate disruption and prepare to balance our lives in a new way. 

Through the case studies in class I learned more about the need for clear communication. Without it, we fail as educators. We need to remember to take the third side: standing on the balcony gaining perspective before we make our decisions.

The use of sympathy and empathy assist in learning about and understanding people. The two are very different.

Sympathy: showing love, compassion, taking action

Empathy: perspective, understanding

When you can see the differences in humanity and understand their thoughts and feelings, you gain respect and knowledge rather than a jump to quick conclusions.

In order to be an effective educational leader, you need to create and maintain and effective learning environment. You need to be organized, supportive, engaging, professional, approachable, kind. It is also important to be able to stimulate interest in your staff and students while communicating by using these tools and talents. 

In John C. Maxwell's book Everyone Communicates, Few Connect, it all boils down to this: "Connecting Practice: Connectors live what they communicate. Key Concept: The only way to keep connecting with people is to live what you communicate." He goes on to say that in order to connect, you need to know yourself and live what you're saying you're living. People will see right through you if you don't. They don't connect with false communicators. Instead, be vulnerable and authentic! That's how you will connect.